EXCUSES

Every single day our brain makes excuses for us that we don’t even realise .

For instance I walk up to you asking “hey,  let’s go for hiking”.

Your brain will automatically start making numerous excuses that why you can’t.

Below are some negative feedback of your brain’s reply that you should try to ignore

They are Better Than Me

No, actually they aren’t. The people in our lives that exist on pedestals didn’t get up there by themselves – we put them there. We also have the ability to take them off of that pedestal and put ourselves on them. Every single human being on this planet has the same basic opportunities in life as anyone else. What makes the difference between success and failure is effort, perseverance, and dedication. Take Elon Musk, for example. He is self-taught, comes from a bad background, has failed countless times, and has still managed to become one of the most successful and influential people on the planet.

I Can’t Live Without __________

Unless the word in that blank above is air, water, food, or shelter – yes you can. We love to think that we couldn’t live without our smartphones, cars, social media, and other meaningless stuff. Have you ever just turned your phone off for a day? It can be the most liberating thing in the world. Imagine losing everything you have, it happens to people every single day. Quit putting a premium on tangible things and start focusing on what really matters in life – like living it.

Life Isn’t Fair

You are right, life isn’t fair, and if you ever expect it to be – you will be badly disappointed. If you allow the curve balls that life is bound to throw at you, break your stride, then you’ll never get anywhere. Let your attitude determine who you are and what you are capable of. Remember, that right now there is someone who has been through a version of what you are going through, and they made it out just fine. You can too.

I Should Quit

Unless you are talking about smoking, drinking, drugs, or some other bad habit – no one has ever achieved anything by quitting. Anything in life worth having is worth working for. That is true for everything from goals to relationships. We live in a “throw-away” society where people think it is just easier to give up, and start again than it is to maintain or rebuild. True, it may be easier, but think about what you are giving up. How many friendships have you walked away from? How many achievements were never made? Fill your life with things you’ll never give up on.

It’s Too Late

If there is a breath in your lungs, it is never too late. “Too Late” is a concept in our heads. The old cliche of “better late than never” is actually one of the truest sentiments in life. It is never too late to take up a hobby, or say an apology, or get something off of your chest. Not doing something altogether is one thousand times worse than not doing it at all.

I Can’t

Yes. You. Can. If you are realistic about what you want to do, there is only one person that can keep you from doing it. Short of breaking the law and impossible things like flying, there is nothing that you can’t do if you put your heart into it. The day that you realize that you capable of anything is the day that you can achieve anything.

REMEMBER ONE THING PEOPLE 

NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE, 

EVEN THE WORD ITSELF SAYS I’M POSSIBLE 🙆 

COLD BREW

Why one need beer 🍻  when  we can get cold brew in beer like bottle 🍶.

Cold brew is amazing , it has many health  benefits  and is less acidic  than original coffee ☕

YOUR LIFE, YOUR CHOICE

Life  is an amalgamation of the choices you make, you create, you come across. Choices are like to commit something , someone , no matter what obstacles or temptations stand in the way , force you to get distracted from your goals and may be making that choice , again and again, day in and day out , year after year , says more about life than never having a choice to make at all. You have a choice. Every breath of yours is a choice . Every second is a choice. Every time you don’t harm yourself , that’s a choice . Suppose you’re suffering from a chronic illness and no one in your family or friend circle understands your situation , you got fed up and drove away from your house in depression , suddenly you realize that you are driving wrong way  and  so depressed  that you want to end your life  but,  you don’t crash your car, you’re a survivor . Cause in the long run , we shape our lives , we shape ourselves. You can be smart and happy or stupid and miserable …… it is your life and you have to make your own choices ,

you don’t get another chance life is no Nintendo game.

so think  wisely!

SICK INDIVIDUAL GOES ON AN ADVENTURE

Today I woke up fully determined   towards my studies , suddenly my phone started ringing , My friend called me to inform that the new game named call of duty black ops iii  is available in market now,  I rushed  towards the nearest game store but the game was out of stock , the other store was too far from my house and my parents won’t allow me to go there alone as I am suffering from jaundice. As I was returning home , again my phone ringed , but this time it was an unknown number. I received the call , I heard the strange voice saying “I am having the thing you want , you have to come at certain address “ that stranger gave me address , I thought to ignore the call and go home to start my study but, I gave that call a second thought and decided to go there as the address was near the game shop but it could be dangerous to go there alone , so I turned on my GPS locator and asked my friend to track my location and to come there within 5 minutes after I reach that place. After I reached there I saw an old bungalow, I stepped in . I entered the gate and the lane was covered with creepy vines, It really gave me a jolt , I said “OMG it looks like I am in the garden hall of prince of Persia (warrior within)” . I thought this person who called me must be a game addict. I entered the main house , I ranged the door bell, but none opened the door , so I thought I should return home , it could be risky to get in , as I turned back I saw my friend has arrived , I gained some confidence and said “we could consider it an adventure” . we both ranged the bell and knocked the door , but the door was open , we stepped in. And we shut the main door , it got locked , we got  frightened , but still we decided to move forward , it was the scene of total darkness , we decided to call that stranger  as we were not able to find the switch board (for the light) but, his phone was switched off. My friend murmured “is someone playing prank on you?” I didn’t answered her question. We switched on our phone’s flash and moved forward  and started searching for exit . but there was none other door than the main one. My friend said  “ is it our end?” I said “hush! Can you hear that sound?” it was the sound of some barrel rolling on the ground but we cannot see that. That room was completely empty.  We started focusing our flashlight towards the wall to find for a switch or something, my friend shouted “ I think we are kidnapped” she was about to call the cops but  then we both stared at the ceiling , here was a switch and one key hanging at the ceiling , I said “ yay!  We are on a real adventure don’t call the cops”. All we need  was a staircase or some stones to get that key or to press that switch. We had nothing  except our phone and money. *to be continued………….(comment if you want to know more , I wont waste my time in typing for none :/)  

FIGHT FOR THE PERSON YOU WISH TO BECOME

“We become what we wish to become.”

Everything in life does not happens easily.

Someone once said *We have to lose ourselves to become the person we wish to become.” I’ve often seen people quote this line so many times but I don’t think anyone really means it. Everyone knows how to lose oneself but how does one win back their true identity? How does one become what they wish to become?

Once you lose yourself you have two choices: find the person you want to be or lose the person you already were. Sometimes, you have to remind yourself of the person you are and what your meant to be. Just don’t get carried away, remember tonight, for it is the beginning of the journey to find yourself. The journey is a promise like the belief in each other and the possibility to find friendship and love. Thins is all you have to do, don’t lose your heart’s desire, gain it. Don’t give up, fight.

Fight for the person you wish to become and do remember one thing ,

NORMAL IS AN ILLUSION.

WHAT IS NORMAL FOR THE SPIDER IS CHAOS FOR THE FLY.

think wisely!

MY FIRST BLOG POST

This is my first blog post, well today it happened again, my problem.

 Every day I think “will I get rid of this predicament? Will I feel normal again? But  when?” I have forgotten the feeling of being normal.

Well  I completed my intermediate last year in 2014 , I am a medical aspirant but people especially my parents think I can become a better patient than a doctor (huh!) .

I am a total mess. Recently I have recovered from jaundice (not really, I am still on the road to recovery) , but this ain’t my main problem I am suffering from. My aspirations took a huge halt when I failed to attempt my scholarship test for Newcastle University (perks of jaundice ). Now I have decided to get admission in my own country.

I am totally inspired from a novel ‘the fault in our stars’ written by John Green , I read it time to time when I feel lonely (and I feel lonely all the time :p ), and yeah I am not suffering from any type of cancer yet.  as the book was based upon the people who got the touch of cancer and I like it because I can feel that helplessness , that distress , that ache they were suffering from (though it was a fiction ).

Oh I am getting late for my rehabilitation  classes , i’ll publish more posts later.

“Sniff books like perfumes and wear books like hats upon your crazy heads.”

The Daily Post

“If you want to write, if you want to create, you must be the most sublime fool that God ever turned out and sent rambling. You must write every single day of your life. You must read dreadful dumb books and glorious books, and let them wrestle in beautiful fights inside your head, vulgar one moment, brilliant the next. You must lurk in libraries and climb the stacks like ladders to sniff books like perfumes and wear books like hats upon your crazy heads.

I wish you a wrestling match with your Creative Muse that will last a lifetime. I wish craziness and foolishness and madness upon you. May you live with hysteria, and out of it make fine stories — science fiction or otherwise. Which finally means, may you be in love every day for the next 20,000 days. And out of that love, remake a world.”

– Ray…

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YOU and YOURSELF

“Embrace your individuality , love what you love, without worrying about the judgement. “

– Shivangi Rai